***UPDATE***I will be out of town for a few days folks my mom is very ill.
Sorry to hear this hammer, my thoughts, prayers and best wishes are with you, your mom and your family....remember sometimes the ones who need the most support are those that don't show it...hang in there, tell your mom to hang in there, and just know you have our support and strength to tap into if you need it.
Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday. 
