I don't even know how to use the program really, I always thought it was "start->run->netsend" but that isn't working, unless you have to install it somewhere along the way.
[edit]
well 8 people so far have looked so they are probably curious on the answer. Found it after a little searching:
To turn off the messenger service:
Right click on My Computer and select Manage. Then click on Services and Applications and it will expand to show you the Services key. Select Services and a list will appear in the right windows. Scroll down the list until you see Messenger. Double Click on Messenger and a new window will open. Change Startup from Automatic to Manual or Disabled and also Press Stop service. The PC can no longer receive net send messages.