should guys do this?

psbaby69 · Post by **psbaby69** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 4:36 pm

this got me so so mad and upset today... i was at school and me and my friends were walking down the hall... we found our friend fighting with her bf... we let them go because they fight all the time... we kept walkin... then he threw her into the locker... we were like wtf?!?! then he grabbed her hand really hard and started to go downstairs and she yelled at him for pushing her and so he shoved her down the stairs and she fell right on her face... thats so horrible... how could any guy be so abusive towards a girl?

nexus_7 · Post by **nexus_7** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 4:46 pm

I dont understand why women (or men for that matter) stay in relationships liek that. No matter what someone says you Dont have the right to become violent. Hope she is ok. Maby one or both of them need to talk 2 a mentor or something...No togeather ofcourse. There sure are some Fricken loosers out there.

Greg

bluewhale · Post by **bluewhale** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 4:50 pm

A lot of people feel this is ... not only ok but 'manly'.
But some of my female friends over the years ( friends: spouses of my friends ) put up with this sort of thing forever.
Does she want him to stop but still want to see him? I say leave the jerk, or ... the options all have down sides.

Hipnotic_Tranz · Post by **Hipnotic_Tranz** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 5:12 pm

<i>"should guys do this?"</i>

No. If I were there and I saw that, I think I would step in. That is unacceptable. Sounds like a real dick to me....

b-man1 · Post by **b-man1** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 7:09 pm

my only hope is that punks like that try that on the wrong person someday and get their @sses handed to them...or do it in front of another guy that decides to show the punk how it feels.

sounds like that was nearing, if not did, cross the line into ASSAULT...which means a visit from the police is warranted. we'll see how tough the little sh!t is when the po-po come visiting and he is p!ssing in his pants.

tunis5000 · Post by **tunis5000** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 9:25 pm

my only hope is that punks like that try that on the wrong person someday and get their @sses handed to them...or do it in front of another guy that decides to show the punk how it feels.

Altho I'm generally against violence, I can't help but agree with you. Nothing bothers me more than a man striking/physically abusing a woman. I don't think I could stop myself from dropping some punk like that. A$$holes like that are usually pussies who need to "show off" or some bullcrap.

Anyone watch ER regularly? There's a guy on there that was hitting his wife, and he later hit a nurse who's a regular on the show who was helping the wife. Well the nurses ex-boyfriend finds this guy and beats the crap outta him! I loved it, gave me a big smile...

d_b · Post by **d_b** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 9:46 pm

One way to teach the punk a lesson would be to file assualt and battery charges against him. I'll never understand why someone likes to hit women and why women stay in that relationship.

PreDatoR · Post by **PreDatoR** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 10:05 pm

If i had seen that he would have been pickin' himself up on the floor i dont' go for that shit at all... I was at a bar one night seen this dude and his woman gettin' into it... I was about 10 ft away and kept my eye on it about that time he doubled up his fist and pulled back like he was gonna swing i was between them told if was as fvcking tough as he though he was he could hit me

Being 6'5 250lbs is a lil on the intimidating side... he was about 6'0 180 or so woulda been a fun fight too but the chicken shit stepped back called her a bitch then left her there.... She bought me a drink said thanks asked her why the hell she hangs around and all she said was i don't know... i really love him though... Women i tell ya... Was kinda funny right after all this happend the bouncer walked up and thanked me then offered me a job... he was about 5'8 about 200 lbs... He said i don't think i could have taken him on...lol i was thinkin' WTF is this guy a bouncer for then?

UberNeuman · Post by **UberNeuman** » Wed Mar 06, 2002 10:06 pm

I once beat the shit out a guy for manhandling his girlfriend at work (we all worked together) - I was almost fired - the both of them quit later on - and stayed together for about a year, then broke up...

Do I regret steping in... No... Sometimes you've got to take a stand... I'm not saying, psbaby69, that you were wrong on how you handled it... None of us were there - and alot of it depends on the moment...

EvilHorace · Post by **EvilHorace** » Thu Mar 07, 2002 12:13 am

There's simply no excuse for any guy who's violent against a woman and for your friends sake, I hope she's smart enough to permanently end the relationship forever as a guy like that will always be like that IMO. No woman (or man) should put up with any form of physical violence from another person, especially in a (so called) relationship. There's plenty of other decent people in this world so there's no need to put up with BS like that.

Fu Manchu · Post by **Fu Manchu** » Thu Mar 07, 2002 2:09 am

i would have beat that kids ARSE !!

i have zero tolerence for guys who hit the ladies

last time i saw a guy hit a lady i beat his arse and slamed him in a locker and locked it .. then i got stupid and jsut started punching the locker he was in lol .. put a big dent in it though

.. i guess i though he had to much room in that little locker or something

Syn · Post by **Syn** » Thu Mar 07, 2002 11:36 am

No it isnt okay by any stretch of the imagination.

All I know is when my girls get old enough to date and some punk decides he wants to abuse one of them they will just have to lock me up because I'll bring hell down on him.