OK
I WAS trying to make an Internet game, but every time it was starting up it was giving me a "network game" begining type screen... but whatever
I dowloaded the Halo Dedicated server software
and I threw THAT onto another machine
now I have the 3rd comp running the dedicated server
I set all the crap up on that machine and began a DedServ game, and without even noticing I had people joining it... 6/6 people were on it!! but I couldn't join because my client was NEWER then the servers! (DAMN IT) so I reinstalled MY halo and patched the server to make sure it was the CORRECT one and now I can join my own game but Via the LAN IP....192.168.0.3:2302
my actual IP is 206.45.168.181:2302
now.. I have the server running as v1.031 so as long as you didn't update your halo to v1.04 we should be able to have a match..
I will leave the server running all night
the name of the server is Havocs Havoc so If you wanna try and join be my guest, post your findings here please!

and if this doesn't work, I'll update to the v1.04 dedserv and see how that goes
thanks FP!
*EDIT* I just tried to join my game on 206.45.168.181:2302 and it was a NO go.... but I can always get on the LAN IP... but that's a given... haven't changed a thing since I first put the Dedserv up either...
I have the DMZ server set up as my LAN IP 192.168.0.3 (2302 is the game port) maybe even try using THAT ip to get into the game...??? LMK
*2ND EDIT*
Ok I am changing it over to version 1.04, update your games, and then try to join my server if you can't join it through Direct IP try joining through the multiplayer lobby, look for only CTF games and look for my server name *CHANGED*
if you DO manage to find my game and join it, hit F1 while in the game and copy down my IP address and post it here so we can all see what it is please!! thanks!
*3rd EDIT*
Ok changed the name of the server, it's now called Extreme_CTF
and I see there are 6 people joined right now, it's 1 pm on thursday (central time) I can't try it out online because I don't have my CD to use the update

stupid me for lending it out!