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- hzl_eyed_grl
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Originally posted by hzl_eyed_grl
What an adorable little girl!!!! I'm sorry if I missed it, but what's her name? I can't wait until my finace and I get married next year and are able to start having children.![]()
Her name is Hannah...and thanks for the compliments
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- hzl_eyed_grl
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Originally posted by hzl_eyed_grl
I'll keep you in my prayers. I met my fiance online a few years ago and fell in love almos two years ago. We're getting married October 15, 2005. I hope everything goes okay with you and your wife. Oh, and I love the name Hannah!![]()
Thank you so much for your prayers and kind words, once again! I met my wife via my brother - they were best friends and had met on the internet. I met her a long time ago, at least it feels like it...but we have been dating for 3 years...married for 1 year and 5 months. We got married on May 17, 2003. I hope things work out between us, too...but I fear she's given up....and when a woman's fed up - there ain't nothing you can do about it. Too bad she can't even tell me what I did wrong.
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Good luck with all the events coming up in your life....and remember one thing - always love your man as God loves you - and everything will be ok.
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Sheerdark, I don't know you, but after reading this thread, I feel like I do in some respects. Your beautiful little girl reminded me of mine.
Your situation reminds me of mine as well. You see, my wife and I separated when my daughter was a little over 1 year old. We filed the papers, told ourselves we hated each other, told each other that we hated the other one, etc. Two weeks before the divorce was final, my wife and I started talking when my daughter got sick and had to be hospitalized. She was pretty sick, and we thought we might lose her, but she pulled through. That crisis brought my wife and I back together.
Next week, my wife and I are going on a little trip to celebrate our anniversary. I can't believe this myself, but we will be married for 30 years! (Yeah, OK, I'm an ole' fart.)
Don't give up, and don't let your pride get in the way! Tell your wife what she means to you. I know it is hard to do when you aren't certain how she will react. However, you will never forgive yourself if you don't do everything you can now....
Good Luck, and I'll pray for you all three! ...KenT
Your situation reminds me of mine as well. You see, my wife and I separated when my daughter was a little over 1 year old. We filed the papers, told ourselves we hated each other, told each other that we hated the other one, etc. Two weeks before the divorce was final, my wife and I started talking when my daughter got sick and had to be hospitalized. She was pretty sick, and we thought we might lose her, but she pulled through. That crisis brought my wife and I back together.
Next week, my wife and I are going on a little trip to celebrate our anniversary. I can't believe this myself, but we will be married for 30 years! (Yeah, OK, I'm an ole' fart.)
Don't give up, and don't let your pride get in the way! Tell your wife what she means to you. I know it is hard to do when you aren't certain how she will react. However, you will never forgive yourself if you don't do everything you can now....
Good Luck, and I'll pray for you all three! ...KenT
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I hope things work out between us, too...but I fear she's given up....and when a woman's fed up - there ain't nothing you can do about it. Too bad she can't even tell me what I did wrong.
Dang man.
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You hang in there ok and don't give up. I wish the very best for you and that things eventually will work themselves out.
Maybe try not talking much with her for now and focus on the kids instead. Sometimes females just need time away to rethink things. Please don't let her get to you too much. But I know how hard that can be. But hang in there. k
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Wish I had better advice for you.
Thanks for the support guys and gals! We have our counseling appointment early in the morning and I actually got a chance to visit with my daughter for a little while tonight. I have to get to bed to wake up so early in the morning, so I'll update you all later. Thanks again for the words of enouragment. *crosses fingers*
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Good luck man.
Kids need their dads. I mean some dads should have nothing to do with their kids...like Mine, but you are a good guy so I hope the best for you...and your "family"
Greg
Kids need their dads. I mean some dads should have nothing to do with their kids...like Mine, but you are a good guy so I hope the best for you...and your "family"
Greg
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Originally posted by Busby
sheerdark: I'm right up the road from ya in ATL at GA Tech. If you ever need someone to talk to in person or whatnot or anything just send me a PM or whatnot. Hope everything works out for ya in the end.
Thank you! That's really nice of you to offer. Maybe some night we can go out for some drinks or something (I am assuming you're 21). I'll keep it in mind. Luckily, I have lots of support in my friends and family...but no one can ever have too many friends!
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Originally posted by nexus_7
Good luck man.
Kids need their dads. I mean some dads should have nothing to do with their kids...like Mine, but you are a good guy so I hope the best for you...and your "family"
Greg
I agree totally...and it's awful that in the courts' eyes...the Dad really has little rights to an infant after divorce. This is one of the main reasons I am so worried about divorce. An infant, which even at 11 months, our child would be considered to be....the courts would not allow full custody to the father (unless the mother is useless and you can prove it), or even overnight visits until 16 months old (not positive on that number, but it's close). So, I'm better off trying to work things out. The counseling session seemed to go pretty well and we have another one for next Friday. Until then, we are not to have any contact with each other that does not involve our child....so hopefully this will turn out for the best. Thanks for all the support, y'all.
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