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Do you ever look back and think "What in the hell did I EVER see in her ?"


I think every guy who has gone thru a Divorce has thought that at least once. I know I have

Keep your head up Dopey it sounds like you are handling it the right way and although it may take some time sooner or later that will pay off for you.
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Go ahead Dopey ! and good luck !
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You Love your kids and they love you- Dont let your kids see the hate you have for her- your above her level there...

Keep your chin up brother.. We are all keeping you in our thoughts
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Originally posted by nitro237
My wife and I split up last year and every time I talk to her , she is such an ass to me . I even try to be nice to her and get along with her .

Do you ever look back and think "What in the hell did I EVER see in her ?"


Ya still do that. lol Did you guys have kids Nitro? My X for the first 2 years was a complete bitch. We both wanted out of the relationship so we went our ways. But even though we weren't together she still wanted to control my every move. She always wanted to know everything i did when i had my daughter. I told her once that i want a detailed list of everything that she does with her and then i will give her one. That was the last time she brought up that question. The best thing you can do is talk to them the least you can. If kids are involved you don't have much choice but just keep the conversation to the kids. If she starts going elsewhere with it tell her ya need to go. No matter how calm and nice you are to them despite the fact you want to kill them they won't return the favor for you and will be as mean as they can get.
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Originally posted by nitro237

Do you ever look back and think "What in the hell did I EVER see in her ?"
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Originally posted by PreDatoR
Ya still do that. lol Did you guys have kids Nitro? My X for the first 2 years was a complete bitch. We both wanted out of the relationship so we went our ways. But even though we weren't together she still wanted to control my every move. She always wanted to know everything i did when i had my daughter. I told her once that i want a detailed list of everything that she does with her and then i will give her one. That was the last time she brought up that question. The best thing you can do is talk to them the least you can. If kids are involved you don't have much choice but just keep the conversation to the kids. If she starts going elsewhere with it tell her ya need to go. No matter how calm and nice you are to them despite the fact you want to kill them they won't return the favor for you and will be as mean as they can get.



nope , no kids with her . I have 2 daughters , 13 and 10 by first wife . That ex is a bitch also :D


Just stick with it DoPeY , the kids will really be glad you did when they get a little older and can see the way things really are .
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Originally posted by nitro237


Just stick with it DoPeY , the kids will really be glad you did when they get a little older and can see the way things really are .
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To this day, I am always amazed at how stupid some people are. people like this need to be kicked in the face with steel toed boots. :)

Hope everything turns out OK DoPeY5007.
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rock on Dopey!!
I am rootin for ya!! Keep up the positive mind set and keep playin it cool while she's a bitch and her BF is a knob... they'll screw up and you'll be the hero like you should be :)
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COURT SUCKED!


So yesterday in mediation I knew we wouldn't agree to anything.


and today in court, well, it was like the commissioner didn't care about anything....


and being a commissioner my lawyer couldn't change her, if she was a judge he could have gave her the boot :(


So, all in all what happend, is even though she went agist the law and strait changed schools my 5 year old goes to she went in her faver.


We knew that morning I hade no chance when we saw who would see our case.....



so, now my lawyer is going to go through the oprions I have left........
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amigo, what can I tell u... , just keep focus , dont give up ...
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